I write this post from a perspective of a mother: what I think is a thoughtful mother’s day present that many other mothers would like too.

My favourites aren’t really material things and wouldn’t cost a cent: kisses and hugs, a flower from the garden, a Happy Mother’s Day written on a notebook paper and a pretend coffee and a playdough cake.

Explaining to our children that presents aren’t always “things” is a bit challenging in our consuming society.  However, my husband and I are trying to teach them the importance of giving as well as simplicity.  The emphasis though should be on thoughtfulness when selecting a gift rather than on a price tag.

There isn’t one-size-fits-all mother’s day gift.  Think about what your mum (or wife if having little kids) likes and needs, what are her interests.  A mum of small children might need one night of uninterrupted, good sleep and some pampering.  A mum of grown up kids living in another state might love some time spent together, a good talk and a lunch with her son(s) / daughter(s).  Maybe a phone call is the only thing a mum wishes:  it’s sad that so many children don’t keep in touch with their mothers and fathers.

Tips for thoughtful mother’s day gifts:

• Flowers: the classic, can’t-go-wrong present.  However, check that they are  organic and fair-trade!
• Eco gifts: homemade or organic body care products
• Plants or a fruit tree,
• Gift vouchers for organic, Oxfam and/or fair-trade shops
• Time spent together – good one for mums of busy, grown-up children
• As mentioned above, something that is really appreciated and matches mum’s needs and likes
• Subscriptions to a favourite magazine or web site
• Something handmade
• Avoid gifts like appliances that everyone will use more that mum herself
• Think about the environment: avoid presents with excessive packaging, lots of plastics and hard to recycle stuff
• And don’t go overboard with gift wrapping.  Check the post on environmentally friendly gift wrapping for some ideas.

On mother’s day kids always wake up very early and come to our bedroom. They can’t wait to bring the present and /or mother’s day cards they made at school and kinder, their eyes beaming proudly when I praise their lovely artwork.  Then we laugh, cuddle and talk for quite a while before my husband gets up and prepares the breakfast. These mornings I’ll always remember and treasure.

I would love to hear about your memorable mother’s day gifts and moments!  If you would like to share them, please do so in the comment box below.